{"id":9247,"date":"2025-12-03T05:47:18","date_gmt":"2025-12-03T12:47:18","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.vairtere.com\/spill\/?p=9247"},"modified":"2025-12-03T05:53:56","modified_gmt":"2025-12-03T12:53:56","slug":"solus-a-word-of-unknown-origin","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.vairtere.com\/spill\/2025\/12\/03\/solus-a-word-of-unknown-origin\/","title":{"rendered":"solus: a word of unknown origin"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>This one time on the street in Gallup down by the good coffee place, we met a chirpy guy who told us that Edward Abbey&#8217;s <em>Desert Solitaire<\/em> was fake, because although old Ed wrote it as if he was alone during the days he spent as a ranger in the Arches Natural Moneymint, he in fact was cohabiting with a wife the whole time. <\/p>\n<p>To which I reply belatedly:<\/p>\n<p>Abbey called and wanted to call the book <em>Desert Solipsism<\/em>. <\/p>\n<p>It was his publisher&#8217;s marketing department that insisted on naming it after a card game. More relatable, you know. <\/p>\n<p>(and so note&#8211;to hell with publishers)<\/p>\n<p>And, as anyone who has ever spent a minute in a marriage knows, cohabiting and solipsism are not mutually exclusive phenomena. <\/p>\n<p>So, buddy, I think your story, while true, is the actual fake. <\/p>\n<p>The fragmentary moments I&#8217;ve spent co-habiting in recent years have not interrupted my solipsism, my state of <\/p>\n<p><em>only, single, sole; forsaken; extraordinary<\/em>. <\/p>\n<p>But we are spending a lot of quality time in an effort to bridge the gap, the one that exists between every single mother&#8217;s son among us;<\/p>\n<p>between you and me.  <\/p>\n<p>I believe in the essential nobility of that pursuit. <\/p>\n<p>PS: The reason most often cited for being forced to use social media, or turning ourselves into phone drones more generally, goes something like, &#8220;well it&#8217;s the only way to stay in touch&#8221;. <\/p>\n<p>Man, talk about useless fakery. <\/p>\n<p>In Touch, if it means anything anymore, means exactly that. <\/p>\n<p>Touch. <\/p>\n<p>Put that in your pipe and smoke it right, dear shared societal world of norms and theories out beyond the solus wall. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>This one time on the street in Gallup down by the good coffee place, we met a chirpy guy who told us that Edward Abbey&#8217;s Desert Solitaire was fake, because although old Ed wrote it as if he was alone during the days he spent as a ranger in the Arches Natural Moneymint, he in [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_feature_clip_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-9247","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vairtere.com\/spill\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9247","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vairtere.com\/spill\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vairtere.com\/spill\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vairtere.com\/spill\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vairtere.com\/spill\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=9247"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/www.vairtere.com\/spill\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9247\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":9250,"href":"https:\/\/www.vairtere.com\/spill\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9247\/revisions\/9250"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vairtere.com\/spill\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=9247"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vairtere.com\/spill\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=9247"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vairtere.com\/spill\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=9247"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}